@MarkDow wrote:
It's not only unfortunate, it's deeply disrespectful.
So walk the talk:
- If you see bad behavior from other men, speak up.
It's not other people's job to make sure that everyone enjoys a safe, respectful, civil environment at work and online.
It's my job. It's your job. It is our job.
There is no mythical men's club where it is OK to be a jerk to women. If you see any behavior that gives you pause, behavior that makes you wonder "is that OK?", behavior that you'd be uncomfortable with directed toward your sister, your wife, your daughter – speak up. Honestly, as one man to another. And if that doesn't work for whatever reason, escalate.
Something like "...great video, but the [gender shaming] is not OK" in the post is the least you can do.